Clitoral stimulation
It never ceases to amaze me how many couples do noy utilize a little black box. I was chatting with some girlfriend a few weeks ago when the subject of toys came up. One had never used them at all. The other (whom has some lack of orgasm issues) said that her husband doesn't like them and doesn't want them in their bedroom. WHAT?!! Does he know that most women have orgasms from clitoral stimulation and NOT from vaginal? And so begins my shameless marketing of vibration devices.
My all time favorite is the pocket rocket. They are inexpensive (you can even order them on amazon) starting at $10. They also come in a water proof variety! These are great for clit stimulation either solo or with a partner. They also come with multiple massaging heads for different textures.
The vibrating dildo: these come in a variety of shapes, sizes and textures. I like the products by Lelo. The Lelo products have a silicon finish that is smooth to the touch. There is a 4 way control on the bottom that allows you to control the speed as well as the type of vibration administered (continuous, wave, intermittent, pulsating). Some are also water proof and have a wall plug in so no more batteries!! There are a variety of different styles. Here is what I got in the mail this week :-)






I will review each of these as I use them. The first is the Gigi (the purple one). This is a great multi purpose tool. It is great because it can be used as a dildo, vibrating dildo, or clit stimulation. It has a wall plug in so there are no batteries ever!! It also has the trademark Lelo control. It has a setting for slow pulsation, fast pulsation, continuous vibration, a wave and a few more. In addition you can adjust how vigorous the vibration is. The curve of this toy is ideal for G-spot stimulation as well. I have used this one on an occasion or two to put on a show for Silas :-)
I am currently trying out the Luna balls and will update on them soon!!
Please, share your favorite toys for both solo and couples use. And visit www.lelo.com
Vivian

Jackpot!

We received a special gift in the mail yesterday.  It looks like we have some work cut our for us so we can review these wonderful Lelo products for everyone.

Monday Memoir - Longing...

Spooning next to eachother.

My arms wrapped around her.

My right hand gently brushing her nipples.

She peels away to remove her shirt, and I sense her bottoms are coming off as well. I begin to remove mine.

She returns to my grip, even tighter now. Both arms wrapped around her with no intention of letting go. Her naked ass pressed against my cock. My other hand slowly moving up and down her body.

She postions my cock so it's pressing against her clit. I take advantage of her spreading legs and play with her outer lips.

A strong grip on her body.

I can feel her pussy getting wetter, the tip of my cock is directed by her, sliding up and down her slit.

Legs spreading further.

My fingers begin to feel her moisture, my cock is directed towards her pussy, while I take my turn touching, teasing, circling, and rubbing her clit.

She pushes me deep inside her. Very wet. Very warm. It's been too long.

I can feel my orgasm building already. Damn she's sexy tonight. I can't hold back.

Just moments after insertion I begin to cum inside her. My abdomen against her back. Pushing deep inside her. Selfishly enjoying myself. I was right, I couldn't hold back. It had been too long.

She rolled me onto my back.

Taking control.

Slid My cock deep inside her.

Then she rode me, using me as her fuck toy to reach her orgasm. Her hands on my chest, hair in my face, grinding against me.

She looked up, closed her eyes, took a deep breath, then let out a series of moans, indicating it was her turn to enjoy herself.

That was last Thursday, before I left town.

I get home tonight.

It's been too long.

Monday Memoirs - Strip Club

Vivian and I took a trip to Vegas and couldn't help but partake in the temptation that is Sin City.  We gambled, we partied, we drank, we danced and we went to a strip club together!  This was our first time either of us had been to one.  We settled into our seats a with a good view of the stage while the women of Vegas worked their magic on the pole.  Soon we were approached for lap dances and Vivian insisted that I get a lap dance from a girl I found sexy.  The first one I chose had a Russian accent and blonde hair, I was mesmerized. Vivian sitting next to me, while another blonde performed before me, her tits in my face. Meanwhile Vivian sheepishly smiled at me as if she knew exactly what was going through my mind.  Then it was her turn, we waited until she found someone she thought was hot, and I watched as this woman with dark hair took off her top and was quickly grinding atop my wife in her chair.  The look on Vivian's face was most memorable, I could tell she was thoroughly enjoying herself, as much as I had enjoyed my lap-dance shortly before.  This was the closest she had been to fulfilling her bisexual fantasies, and it was turning both of us on.  I couldn't help but smile even more when I realized all of the men around us were staring at the two gorgeous women before them, and one of them was my wife. 
      After a few more lap dances and a short time spent at the stage tucking dollar bills into g strings we hopped in the limo and headed to our hotel room.   I remember it being a fairly quiet ride to the hotel, and a pleasant stroll from the casino floor to our hotel room.  We got ready for bed and climbed in as if it was any other night.  I wrapped my arms around Vivian, the smell of the other woman still on her, as she took my and and brought it to her pussy.  It was amazingly warm and wet.  It was that moment that I realized how turned on she was by our evening at the strip club.  As I spooned her, I spread her legs out and immediately began to play with her pussy.  She helped me as she teased her clit while I slid my fingers inside.  Knowing how horny the club had made her, got me harder than I had been all night.  My hard cock pressed against her while both of us teased and played with her wetness.  I love when she gets that wet, sliding my fingers inward, then back out and running them up her slit, gliding my fingertips effortlessly over her clit.  I began to maneuver my body so I was above her, rolling her onto her back and spreading her legs before me.  I slid a second finger inside her while I watched her play with her amazing tits.  Pressing my fingers inside her, then sliding them outward while my fingertips curled upward, teasing her G spot.  Then pressing them further inside.  I remember not allowing her to play with her clit, refusing to give it attention, which is where she gets 99% of her orgasms from.  That night I just wanted to play with her pussy.  Sliding my fingers in and out, both of us teasing her nipples, I could feel her orgasm approaching, then watched her body begin to tense before me.  She squeezed her breasts while her hips lifted off the bed, my fingers sliding in and out of her still.  I could feel her pussy tightening around my fingers while her body lost control to the pleasures of orgasm.  She moaned out load as she continued to cum below me, then her body collapsed and gave way to the afterglow of her orgasm. 
     Vivian has never believed that there is a G spot, if that's the case I don't know where that orgasm came from as it wasn't her clit.  Regardless, I know that at least one time I took control of her body and gave her a mind blowing orgasm without playing with her clit.  And I hope for the sake of her bisexual fantasies that woman grinding against her at the strip club was deep in her thoughts.

Monday Memoirs - Batteries Aren't Only For Sex Toys

     This will be the first of many posts that involved our High School days.  We may not have been the star athletes, we may not have been passing out drunk at our friends houses, we may not have been getting high out of our minds, but we sure did know how to sneak away and find some time to fuck.  Looking back on it, we may have had the better end of that deal...
     I remember driving up to one of our favorite spots to fish and hike on that rainy afternoon.  We have always enjoyed the outdoors together.  Many days have been spent hiking, fishing, camping and enjoying the sunshine.  This day however was different, I miss those days of being so carefree, going for a drive alone just because we could.  As we pulled down the desolate dirt road I pulled over to the side and simply shut off the engine.  I had no intentions of hiking or fishing that day, I was simply looking for a nice quiet place to enjoy my company.  Vivian has always been a bombshell...bright blonde hair, sexy smile, and a smoking body.  We spent a lot of quality time in that single cab truck, just the two of us.  I leaned over and kissed her on the lips as my body began to shake.  It took two years before I stopped shaking every time, that I had sex with my wife, I don't think it was due to nervousness but due to sheer overjoy and excitement at the thought of what I was doing.   Sitting side by side our lips met as my hands began to reach inside her shirt to feel her breasts.  Sex was so hasty and passionate during these times.  Tugging at her shirt, begging for me to help her pull it off.  Watching her lift it over her head which was quickly followed by the unfastening of her bra.  Her hands jolted to my pants, unbottoning them and then sliding them down around my ankles. My hard cock standing to attention, sticking out of the opening in my boxers.
     There was just enough room for me to slide in between her legs facing her.  Kissing her as I frantically pulled her pants and underwear off and tossed them aside.  There was no screwing around today, I wanted to take her right now.  I slid my cock between her legs as she arched her back with her eyes closed and took me inside her.  Vivian has always been incredibly flexible, as her back pressed against the truck seat her feet took a firm grip on the windshield in front of her.  We began to fuck quickly, my cock thrusting in and out of her as she moaned out her thoughts in front of me.  Her pussy felt so tight against my hard cock as I could feel my orgasm approaching fast.  My back arched, and I came inside her and collapsed on top.  I quickly dismounted and started to get dressed, we had been fortunate no one had driven by yet and I didn't want to take my chances.  Grinning from ear to ear, I went to start the truck to return home......"click, click, click"  Motherfucker! I was so eager to fuck Vivian that I forgot to turn off the lights and had a dead battery!  We had to hike roughly a mile back to civilization, find a random man at his house, and ride with him up to our desolate spot to jump our truck battery.
     I can't help but wonder what went through that middle aged man's mind that day.  Could he smell the sex on us when we got in his car?  Could he tell Vivian had a serious case of Fuck Hair?  Did he know I pulled over on the side of the road to ravage Vivians body?  Did he notice the foot prints on the inside of the windshield, indicating I had just fucked Vivian there 30 minutes ago? 



   

Longing...

  Starting this blog 2 weeks ago has been exciting for many reasons.  It has began to reconnect us sexually just as we had hoped it would.  In such a short time our sexual communication has greatly increased, our sex has been great, and posting and reading each-others posts has been so much fun.  I often wonder if Vivian's post on porn accompanied by her HNT photo has the same affect on our readers as it has on me?  Everytime I check in on our blog I can't help but think about how amazingly sexy my wife is.  Those feelings seem to be amplified tonight, because this morning she kissed me goodbye before she left for a few days on a business trip. 
     I was awoken by her footsteps down the hallway as she approached our bed.  She had that fresh out of the shower smell that always excites me.  She then softly told me goodbye and kissed me...her lips were amazingly soft...then she had to leave.  I've been thinking about her kiss all day long and have been so distracted.  I keep sneaking away to quiet places in the house to look at our own blog, rereading her post on porn, and looking at the way her breasts push against the sweater she was wearing when I took her HNT photo.  I can't wait until she returns home.  I plan to be freshly showered, to be cleanly shaven, and to be smelling as good as she did this morning.  Then I can return the favor when she walks in the door, and kiss her soft lips as she did to mine, only this time I plan on grabbing her and not letting her go so easily.  

- Silas