Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Porn

When we decided to start this blog I wanted to do it because I HATE searching through endless pages of bad porn. It seems as though most porn is geared towards men. It is always vicious sex that is so unrealistic that more often than not I find it to be humorous rather than hot. I think that as a women I enjoy porn quite a lot actually. However, I appreciate seeing more toned down and realistic porn. I hate the screaming moaning cum shots. I mean really, watching some girl moan and groan while she gets cum all over her face is really not hot to me. I really enjoy a good lesbian movie. There is something so much more sexy about watching two wet pussies rub all over each other. I find it particularly enjoyable to watch one hot girl suck another hot girl's pussy. Now I don't like the lip smacking and finger jamming. I like a good seductive pussy licking. The kind that is so wet and about medium speed, the kind that makes your own pussy wet just watching. Perhaps this is because this is the kind of pussy licking I like to receive.
At times I feel guilty that I like girl on girl porn more than girl on guy. However, I think that there are two main reasons I like girl on girl porn better.
1) Because it is softer and more sensual
2) Because I have always fantasized about having a lesbian encounter but I have never actually had one. Therefore there is a big fantasy factor involved.
Therefore, I will continue to search for good porn and will post whenever I find something I like. I rolled across these websites this morning and thought someone else might enjoy. Please share yours if you have any as well.
http://www.lezbomovies.com/
http://tour.sapphicerotica.com/?nats=MTQuNy4xLjEuMS4wLjAuMC4w

Viv

Monday, April 25, 2011

Monday Memoirs: Hot and Steamy

     I want to preface my first Monday Memories post by saying that it is my hope to share with you stories from our sexual past that are completely true.  As is the case in any relationship,  sex isn't always steamy, romantic, or wild, but I do take pride in the fact that we have been quite adventurous at times.  My first selection for Monday Memories is one of my favorites from our past, whenever the topic of wildest place you've had sex comes up this is always the first in my mind because it was so hot!
     We were driving back from a weekend getaway that involved just the two of us.  We don't often break away from the children but when we do we seem to take full advantage of it.  I honestly don't recall what we were doing that weekend, but this particular moment is branded in the back of my mind.  We had driven by this location many times but never took the opportunity to stop.  It is a natural sauna, I won't give away the name for privacy sake, but it is an amazing place.  We happened to have our swimsuits in the car, unfortunately it isn't clothing optional(more on this in another post!), and decided we would make a quick detour and visit the sauna. We walked in, not knowing what to expect as we were greeted with a spa like setting upstairs.  Soft music filled the low lit entry, we were shown to a room where we could just sit quietly and relax if we wanted to, and then were given directions to the locker rooms and the entry to the sauna.  We changed into our swimsuits and met in the hallway.  I remember Vivian wearing a bikini that day which she always looks amazing in. I still feel like a 13 year old boy at a swimming pool when I see my wife in a bikini, she is a very sexy woman.
     As we opened the door to the sauna we were smacked in the face by a rush of steam and heat.  The kind that takes your breath away when you encounter it.  We walked our way down a steep set of stone stairs that descended into a very low lit cave with fellow saunanites(I made that word up) basking in the natural steam and heat that was being released by the earth.  We anxiously walked our way to the back of the cave where there was a large room with people sitting quietly along the natural stone seating.  We awkwardly sat down next to eachother, not knowing the proper etiquette, everyone was so quiet! Could we talk? Should we whisper? Must we stay silent? The average age within the cave must have been about 35 and we couldn't have been more than 19 at the time.  I seem to remember being uncomortably close to an overweight middle aged man and I motioned for Vivian to follow me as we searched for somewhere more comfortable.  As I took her hand in mine and led her back toward the entrance I noticed her skin was slippery and hot from the heat, the sweat, and the steam.
     As we walked hand in hand toward the entrance another couple happened to get up off of a bench just large enough for about 2 people that was just off the main path of the cave, and we took their spot.  I remember sitting there silently next to Vivian, her wet and hot skin sliding against mine, then beginning to slide my hand over her moist skin.  It felt so amazing! Not a word was said between the two of us as we started to run our hands slowly over each others bodies while we sat side by side.  We could hear others talking in the distance, and occasionally someone would walk past to reach the large room at the end of the cave or return to the spa.  When I saw the opportunity I remember sliding my hands inside her bikini top, feeling her nipples slide between my fingertips and then stand to my attention.  While no words were exchanged I could clearly tell she was just as aroused as I was, The only problem was we were in a public sauna with people passing by.
     I simply could not resist her any more and slid my hand into her bikini and began to touch her.  My fingers teasing her and I was pleasantly surprised to find her very wet.  I don't really know what came over me, and to this day I don't know if I could repeat my behavior, but I decided I didn't care who walked by and got down on my knees in front of her.  I slid her bikini to the side and began to tease her with my tongue.  Her body felt so amazing everything was so wet and slippery from the steam.  There I was, on my knees in front of her, her legs spread open as I fingered and licked her. This didn't last long before she pulled me back up to the bench.  I unfastened my swim shorts and let my very hard cock out as she climbed on top of my lap facing me.  Her lips met mine as my cock entered her wet pussy.  I remember kissing her being my favorite part, it was so effortless, even our faces and lips seemed lubricated by the heat of the earth.  Our tongues dancing as Vivian's hips moved back and forth against mine.  Fortunately, we've both always been able to orgasm quickly as I only remember a few people walk by during this time, but thankfully they didn't say a word and kept on walking.  We both quietly controlled our orgasms the best we could, you know the kind where you're almost holding your breath, yet breathing deeply at the same time, pushing the voices of orgasm back.  We returned to our seats on the bench and snuggled side by side with a smile painted on both of our faces.  As we watched people walk by and wondered if they enjoyed their time here as much as we did.

Monday, April 18, 2011

A Sexual Journey Through Time – An Introduction


“We wish we had sex lives like Silas and Vivian.”  These words were spoken by some female friends of ours recently who are both in relationships.  The irony in this statement is we seem to feel we are going through a bit of a sexual rut lately.  We married in our teens and have now been joined in holy matrimony for close to ten years.  In those ten years we have managed to have a few children, pursued college and careers, and maintained a healthy relationship.  Life is hectic. That may be an understatement. Kids’ sports and activities, college, grad school, work, cleaning, yard work, homework…you get the idea.  As we approach the ten year mark we find ourselves a bit lost within the monotony that has become our sex life.  You see, after ten years you know what each other like and don’t like.  The thrill of something new wears off as most things you are comfortable with have been tried at least once before, and sex becomes routine rather than energetic.  This is due in part to our busy lives but also to the fact that we have been quite adventurous in our sexual decade, and are left wondering what else is out there.  We’ve had much more sex together than the average twenty-something who is in and out of relationships and partying.  We don’t have to go looking for sex, it’s been right next to us for the past 10 years!  We plan to co-author this blog in order to bring some passion back into our sex lives.  We have found ourselves searching for porn and toys aimed towards couples,   but sifting through the mountains of content can be a bit overwhelming.  We hope to use this blog to further explore our sexual interests, to find and review porn and toys for couples, to tell stories of our sexual adventures, and to share with our readers how sex within a marriage can be amazing if you are willing to make an effort.